Killing Pride by the Hope of Glory

“For the creation was subjected to futility, not willingly, but because of him who subjected it, in hope that the creation itself will be set free from its bondage to decay and obtain the freedom of the glory of the children of God.” – Romans 8:20-21

When Satan tempted Eve in the garden, he offered her two things:  freedom and glory. He offered her the ability to do whatever she wanted, and to look amazing to everyone who saw her. When the enemy did this, he tapped into the fact that Eve, along with her husband, was created for both of these things. The appeal in Satan’s temptation was that he offered a shortcut to them. Or so it seemed. As soon as Adam and Eve fell to temptation, it began to become evident that what they received were counterfeit freedom and counterfeit glory.  Behind the thin veil of Satan’s offer was the exact opposite of what Adam and Eve thought they were signing up for.  Instead of freedom and glory, they found bondage and shame.

Ever since then, the children of Adam and Eve have been longing for true freedom and true glory, and have been looking for them in all the wrong places. Satan is still at work offering shortcuts, and we are still prone to the same kind of deception and rebellion that drives us to pursue these things in the wrong way. Pride is found wherever we pursue freedom and glory on our own terms, without any connection to God.  It comes when the prospect of being like God gets cast off in the pursuit of trying to be God.  Satan baited his hook in this way with our first parents, and he is still at it with a great deal of success today.

The way to defeat pride is not to stop wanting freedom and glory. It would have been dishonest and ineffective for Eve to deny that she wanted what the fruit in the garden seemed to offer her. What she needed, and what we need, is to recognize that God offers us the real versions of these things.  And by God’s design, the creation itself longs to see us get them. In some mysterious way, God has consigned all of creation to an experience of the decay that comes along with bondage to sin. In this way, the creation groans along with us, longing to experience what Paul calls “the freedom of the glory of the children of God”. This is not a sideshow in God’s plan for history. The revealing of the sons of God is what the creation eagerly longs for. And through union with Christ, we get to be a part of it.

How does this expectation help us to defeat pride? Not simply by telling us that pride is wrong. We were created to want the glory of God, and to want it in a way that glorifies God instead of ourselves. And this is what God promises to give us. He promises that someday, because of Christ, his character will shine through us unhindered. As his children, we will be free to shine like our Father. And in that day, we will be free from every inclination to hijack that glory and point it back at ourselves. This is the true freedom of the glory of the children of God. This is the kind of hope that kills pride.

(More Specific) Reasons to be Reasonable

“Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand” – Philippians 4:5

The fact that the Lord is near should produce a reasonableness in my response to others.  In order for this kind of response to happen, I need some clarity about what the Lord’s nearness means for me, particularly in frustrating situations.

Because he is the Lord, he is the most important person in the room. Whatever I’m going through, it’s first and foremost about him. It’s not about me or about the person who’s causing problems for me, and the solution to the problem isn’t ultimately found in either of us. The significance and the solution are both found in Christ.  His lordship – his preeminence (Col. 1:16) – should reorient my perspective on every situation.  That reorientation can begin even before I remember the provision that the Lord offers to me in his nearness.

And I must not forget his provision. As the Lord, he is in control. When I am interacting with an unreasonable person, it feels like that person is hijacking control of my life. Or at least some part of it. It’s unsettling to see part of my life taken over someone who clearly doesn’t have my best interests in mind. And at one level, this can really happen; but the hijacker’s influence is not ultimate. Final and definitive control of my life and all of its details lies with the Lord alone.

The Lord who is near has made promises to me that the unreasonable person can’t break. These are lasting promises that can’t be matched by anyone.  He promises to exercise the full force of his power, wisdom, and love to ensure that every detail he assigns to me is worked out for my good. He promises to get me to a place where where fear of the future will be gone forever, and where I will look back without a single regrets about any of his dealings with me.

This Lord, who works for my good in ways that are often painful for me, is not cold and clinical about the pain that process requires. He’s not like the stern, one-dimensional parent who is exclusively concerned about growing up to be big and strong, and entirely unconcerned about how hard it is to develop a taste for broccoli.  This is the Lord who calls me to cast all of my cares on him, because he cares for me (1 Pet. 5:7).

Because he is the Lord, it’s his evaluation of me that matters. Someday, when I stand before him, the importance of everyone else’s opinion of me will vaporize. And (unlike me) this Lord is more than reasonable. He is kind. Instead of insisting that I measure up before he accepts me, he has done the measuring up for me.

The Lord’s nearness gives me what I need for stability when it feels like my world is being shaken.  His wise and loving control of my life, his unbreakable promises, his personal care for me, his righteousness in exchange for my shame, all come together to form a broad and solid place to stand.  But in order to stand there, I need to get there, and I don’t get there by accident.  Rather, I get there and stand there by faith.

I prepare to weather tough moments by faith as I commune with the Lord who promises to be near when they arrive.  I also prepare for them by applying the truth about the Lord and his nearness in these tough moments.  The more I live by the truth in real-life situations, the better I know it, understand it and love it, and the better prepared I am to live by it more fully in the future.

Reason to be reasonable

“Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand” – Philippians 4:5

If it came naturally for us to be reasonable with everyone, Paul would not have to tell us to do it.  But it is not natural.  It is so often reflexive for me to respond to the inconveniences that people introduce into my life with irritation instead of reasonableness.  That irritation might be expressed or unexpressed, mainly depending on my level of familiarity with the irritating person.  But if my internal response isn’t reasonable, then my reasonableness won’t be known to them, even if I don’t snap at them (this time).

Of course, I don’t choose to be unreasonable.  In fact, some of my most unreasonable moments are the ones in which I feel most vehemently reasonable.  I feel this way because I sense the other person being unreasonable with me, and my rational powers go to work popping off reasons why they shouldn’t do it.  My response makes perfect sense… to me.

Now certainly, Paul is talking about more than being logical.  But he’s not talking about less.  He’s not insisting that I simply ignore certain things, like the fact that a telemarketer’s friendly greeting is a cheaply disguised tool to pry money out me.  Rather, Paul is calling me to put things in their proper order of priority, which is a very logical thing to do.  In the logical order of priority, the first thing that needs to shape my view of any situation is that “The Lord is at hand.”  This begins to change everything, if I don’t miss it.

I naturally see my conflicts as involving two people:  myself and the unreasonable person.  And in this kind of situation, I see myself as the central point of reference.  The other person may have information to contribute, but the authoritative evaluation belongs to me.  And it’s about me.

With that as my starting point, I can move in a basically logical direction, demonstrating why I’m so right.  It’s logical (usually) in the sense that one idea builds properly on another.  My flow of thought isn’t irrational; my premise, however, is.  In the moment, my premise involves a narrow, stilted view of reality that looks a lot like Carl Sagan’s view of the cosmos:  “My kingdom is all that is, or was, or ever will be.”  I know how idiotic a statement like that that sounds when some smart guy on PBS says it, yet I’m prone to build a string of logical arguments on the same dumb idea.  It’s not truly reasonable, and that’s not hard for others to see.

In order to be really reasonable, I need to start with something that shakes all the garbage out of my original starting point, and starts my logic off in a different direction.  That something is the convicting, liberating, reason-restoring fact that “The Lord is at hand.”  He really is.

I can’t carry what I can’t touch

We all carry many different burdens at different times. Some of those burdens are necessary and unavoidable.  Others are not.  Whenever I haul around burdens that I’m not supposed to, I rob myself of the strength I’m supposed to spend on my real responsibilities.

One of the unnecessary burdens I carry is the burden of anxiety over real responsibilities that I will need to take care of in the future. With seminary work, increasing responsibilities in ministry, five boys to raise, and a marriage to protect, there is no end to the demands on my time. There is always a list of things to do; some of those things are written down and organized, and some of them are just in my mind. Having my future responsibilities well-organized helps, but it does not really solve the problem.

What does help is to remember that almost all of my anxiety has to do with the future. I very rarely worry about the current moment. Sometimes the current moment is hard, but my worry is almost always about what is to come. It might be focused on 30 years from now, or it might be focused on 30 seconds from now. However far away the focus of my worry is, what I need to remember is that I can’t get there. I’m worrying about something that I can’t touch, and because I can’t touch it, I have no direct control over it, or responsibility for it.

Worry over what I will be responsible for in the future creates a persistent and unnecessary burden. It must be part of the burden that Jesus describes when he says “come to me all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” (Matt. 11:28)

In order to cast off the burden of anxiety over the future, I need to remember two things – one thing looks back, and the other looks forward.

First, at every moment in my past, without exception, God is been faithful to provide for me. The simplest evidence for God’s faithfulness to me is the fact that I’m still here, and I’m not ruined. God has never once failed to keep me.

Second, this same God has promised to meet all of my needs in the future. Whatever pain he chooses to allow into my life, he has promised that he will not allow me to be destroyed. Given his demonstrated faithfulness to this promise at every single point in my past, I have every reason to believe it for the future.

This truth leads to real freedom, if I am disciplined to actively believe it. It takes discipline to cast all of my cares on the Lord, remembering that he cares for me (1 Pet. 5:7). But when I do this, I find the peace of mind that can’t be explained in human terms. I find a liberating and energizing sense that all will be well, because my well-being is in the hands of someone who can guarantee it.

I will have to do hard and painful things again in the future. I will face situations that make me feel hopeless in myself. This is a healthy thing.  Because of God’s provision, every impossible situation that I face will leave me with one more experience of God’s ability to do what nobody else can.  Like carry the future.

Standing secure, looking forward

“Through him we have also obtained access into this grace in which we stand, and we rejoice in hope of the glory of God.” (Romans 5:2)

As I purposefully arm myself with the truth of the gospel against Satan’s attacks, I find Romans 5:1-11 to be particularly helpful.  In this passage there is a powerful list of reminders about the gospel and its implications for me.  In this verse, there are at least two.

First, I stand in grace.  My justification by faith does not usher me into a state of tenuous obligation.  It is not my job to sustain God’s kind intentions toward me.  Certainly, I am obligated to obey the Lord.  But that obligation is not smuggled into my life inside the otherwise good gift of the gospel.  It is a good part of the gospel itself.  Through the finished work of Christ and my union with him, I can now “walk in newness of life” (Rom. 6:4).  That, along with my perfect acceptance before God, is what grace gives to me.

Second, I can gladly and confidently look forward to a full experience of the glory of God.  Sometimes I’m too vague in the way I envision this experience.  The glory of God is not just a light so bright you can’t quite look at it.  The glory of God is the combined expression of everything that is good about him (in other words, everything that is true about him).  My enjoyment of the kindness, intelligence, attractiveness and abilities of others in this life serves as a tiny spark of what it will be like to enjoy the glory of God.  I will spend eternity benefiting from his inexhaustible kindness (Eph. 2:7), being impressed by his unstoppable power, and unpacking the intricate wisdom of his plan to redeem his people.

Yet my experience of God’s glory will not only come through observation.  It will be even more personal than that.  I have sinned, and in my present state, I fall short of the glory of God.  I fail to glorify him by failing to be glorious like him.  I don’t live up to his glorious character.  But in eternity, that will no longer be the case.  When Christ is revealed, I will be revealed with him in glory (Col. 3:4).  From that point on and forever, I will be unhindered in my expression of the righteousness of Christ that I have received through the gospel.  I will no longer fall short of the glory of God.

Assurance by faith alone

“Therefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.” (Romans 5:1)

This is a statement of profoundly confident assurance.  This assurance is not based on an examination of our Christian growth, or on any other thing about us.  It comes from looking entirely away from ourselves to Christ.  That is what “by faith” in “justified by faith” refers to.  When we believe, like Abraham did, God’s impossible promise to bring death out of life, God credits righteousness to our account and treats us as totally acceptable.

At the point of justification by faith alone, even before noticeable sanctification happens, we can confidently say “I have peace with God.”  And that peace is complete.  It is not a state in which God, though he is legally obligated to accept me, still harbors some personal animosity toward me or frustration about me because of my ongoing sin.  Rather, he is altogether for me.  He is never angry with me.

God is comprehensively aware of the sin remaining in my attitudes and behaviors.  He hates that sin, and is not content to leave it in my life.  As a result, he works in a variety of ways – often painful for me – to remove that sin.  Yet even when he brings this discipline into my life, he does so with sovereignly kind intentions toward me.  He frowns at my sin, but he smiles at me.

It is only when I hold on to this understanding of God’s disposition toward me that I can move on to the further promises of Romans 5, and the deeper assurance of hope that comes from proven character (v 4).